I don’t send a card to my mom or my brother.
I have always felt Valentines was for “lovers” and if celebrated…..gifts, if any, had to be red and related. You couldn’t give a random book or cd. A new pair of jeans or gift card.
However when your 4 year old granddaughter throws her arms around you in excitement and says, in answer to my question “What comes after Christmas?”
“Valentines Day! Are you going to make me a card!?”
Well what more could I say. Happy Valentines Day my darling, to you and your sister.